I have a client with a Netgate 6100, and it was at 23.09 and while working on some issues we rebooted and upgraded the netgate to 24.03. Ever since OpenVPN is slow to connect. I created a test user and connected and from the logs it sat for a whole minute.
Tested with both the latest we can get from OpenVPN 2.6.11 and the version from the pfSense client export 2.6.7-Ix001. Multiple computers, users and locations.
Latest Windows 11 Pro, all updates. Modern cpus. Including 13th gen Core i7 mobile cad machine.
Out of curiosity, what happens if you revert back to OpenVPN 2.5.x? I was having similar issues and after some deep digging on reddit, I found that Win 11 and OpenVPN 2.6.x were problematic. I wound up pinning my version in winget at 2.5.8 just to make sure it did not accidently get updated unless I explicitly push out the update/upgrade.
I realize that installing older versions is not recommended from a security standpoint. Worst case scenario if you try is that it does not change your connection issues and you uninstall and re-install the latest version. But if this does fix connection issues, you will be wiser as to a possible solution.
And again, I am not recommending you take the risks I did, I am just offering my own experiences for testing purposes in a secure environment. This should not be a production solution. I do plan to revisit and test further to see if any newer versions fix the connection issues at some point.