Cant get openvpn site-to-site tunnel to work

So i kinda hit a brick wall with this…

Lets call my home router main, and the other is pluto. So main can ping pluto on its VPN ip and LAN ip. Pluto can ping main on its VPN ip but nothing “deeper”. FW rules on VPN interfaces are wide open, as a last ditch effort i also assigned the ovpn interface on server side too but still cant get it to work. Routing table also checks out on both ends…

Im pretty much out of ideas, what am i missing here? :confused: